I know what its like to be hung up on a guy who is not pursuing you. In fact, I know what its like to be hung up on a guy that wont pursue you but is pursuing every single girl in church but you.
There are many singles that are stuck looking at someone who isnt putting in the time and effort to be with you. You feel they like you or they are shy but the truth is there were several other girls that he did have enough desire to make him say those words you wanted him to say to you.
As hard as it is release yourself from this time draining decision to put your focus on a man without effort because if he wanted to he would.
Im not saying if he wanted to a little bit.
I am saying that the man that you want to be your husband should be a man of effort and intentionality. He shouldn’t be going after every single thing but you. He should be going after you and only you.
There should be no guessing, no wondering. You shouldnt even be afraid of losing him because he wont go anywhere.
God I pray for those that have been waiting. They have been waiting wondering and hoping for people that are never gong to cross a church to say hi. They are waiting on people that have gone after so many others while they have just sat there.
I pray that they would realize that they are of more value than that. The man that you have for them will make a beeline to them. The man you have for them wouldnt waste time in making a love story on earth a reality.
This next season you will see what true intentionality is. You wont have to wonder and you wont be in chaos.
God is going to put together the most EASY love story that you have EVER seen. No questions. No delay. Just Right.
