There are some who will never make it out of a complicated and messed up love life/personal life because of the warfare coming against them.
Their love life can either be a tool in which the Lord can prepare them, groom them, and let them learn to be victorious. Or the enemy will win by bringing them distraction after distraction that will bring depression anxiety fear unbelief, messed up circumstances that take YEARS maybe even DECADES To recover from.
Many dont realize that there is a spirutal warfare happening. Sometimes for their soul, but if they are in the church it is for their destiny.
The bible says the enemy is strategic and he SEEKS the weak parts of people. He has prepared his best tactics to take you down. But you can thwart his plans with your decisions. With the decision to trust God above all others, the decision to have faith for what GOD will bring, and the decision to listen to his still small voice when he is trying to warn you.
God leads his children but it is up to them to listen to him. Sometimes people without a lot of trauma or with a lot of spiritual support don’t have to listen as much. They have a lot of buffers in their life that will cause them to keep on the right path.
But those with unique callings and giftings who are in environments with people who don’t really get it, will have to squint to really hear God and make sure they are on the right path and not being led down a path by their brokenness.
Make God the God of your life, not your brokenness!!
There is a war, but you will win it if you just trust in Jesus.