We have a tendency to look at our circumstances as proof as to whether God is doing something or not. The truth is things could already be done in the supernatural before you ever see them in the natural.
Chances are what you have prayed for for so long is actually already settled in heaven, you are just waiting on the manifestation.
When you get to a place where it looks badder than bad, that is not the time to go searching for something else other than Jesus for an answer.
Instead plant your feet on the ground and say no matter how long this confusion lasts, no matter how long I dont know what to do, Im doing it with you Jesus because I know that if anyone has an answer for my complicated situation it is you.
