Many of Gods promises are conditional. Even if we get a word from the Lord, we still need to follow himand stay in obedience.
The word of God talks about loving God with all your heart, mind, soul and strength. It also says the way that we show our love to God is through our obedience.
It is the action behind the feeling of being in love with Jesus.
I am being faithful and commited to him with who I am. And the more that he gives to me, the more I am going to show my love for him by taking care of what he has given. I appreciate him and everything that he does for me.
But some are careless with him and they call that love and everyone else that corrects them as being people without love. Really they are disobedient and something is off with them.
They would rather point a finger, them submit to Gods authority.
All we can do is pray for these people that they don’t lose the things God has for them because of being out of alignment with him.