The pain you feel today is the strength you’ll feel tomorrow.

Anonymous

I have noticed the trend of a lot of women being focused on getting a man while they themselves need a lot of work done on them. They are ignoring the fact they are broken and no man could ever put them back together again.

It sucks to have to work on yourself and it is painful to have to sift through memories and figure out what you need to change about yourself and how you can overcome the obstacles to become more healthy again. And it takes time.

But in the end, you will be happy that you focused on you and allowed God to do a cleansing in your heart. You’ll be happy that your kids don’t have to worry about having a mom that never dealt with her issues.

Don’t sidestep the necessary step of getting your own heart healed and learning how to be happy all by yourself.