Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you wonder, How did I even get here? I had all the reasons in the world not to be here, but I just kept slipping. Now I am in a place where I never expected to be and I never thought I would be.

I have good news for you. You are in the perfect place to heal. You are in the perfect place to realize where you are and how you got here. This is a perfect place to stop and contemplate for a moment and dig deep for a life-change.

It seems easier to have a victim mindset that says I got here because I didn’t have this or that. Some people are more fortunate to have the right people around them that are wise and will lead them in the right ways. But, some will have to pull themselves up from their bootstraps.

I want to tell you to pull up those bootstraps. Even if you have no one, you can find wisdom in God to get out of where you are and have a better life for the rest of your life. People don’t want to believe this because we want want want. They don’t want to believe that God can be a mother, brother, sister, paycheck, emotional support, etc. God can be your wisdom when you don’t have the guidance from people you need. God can bring every single little thing you need to you.

All you have to do is trust him.

Now I want to say this..because there is a thousand ways to look at things and I can just hear in my head what people would rebuttal to me if I said these things to them. I do believe that mentor-ship, having wise parents and family members and all that stuff is important. I believe it is a God blessing but its not everything. God is EVERYTHING. He is the one who supplies ALL of our needs and sometimes he supplies them in ways that don’t seem fair to us because they don’t look like what they want.

This is not the end for you. In fact, its the start of a beautiful life. Its the start of realizing where your provision really comes from. And that realization will bring a special power into your life to overcome for good.