For some of us, the area of our love life is a very difficult area. It may be one where we have experienced devastation and loss. It may be an area you have not really allowed God into.

Maybe you feel deep down that you know what is best. You are worried that if you give him the reigns that he may not pick it as you would. He may not pick Johnny down the street, he may give you someone you would have never imagined yourself with!

All of these are fears because the truth is there is no one better to pick your spouse and lead you to your spouse than God! He knows everything honey.

So why do we act like he doesn’t? Why are we scared to place our lives in his hands when God is love?

He is the one who made it and one of his desires is for his children to build and have communion with himself and others while on this earth and continuing into heaven.

The more you decide to surrender to him, the more you will realize that he is good. He gives nothing back as we gave it to him. Instead, we will find with his vast resources and loving heart, that we will often be overflowing with the multiplication of what we gave him.

Not only will he put your love story together, but he will put it together in a way where you are healthy happy, and whole.

You won’t have to carry around the baggage that others have had to carry because you went to the one who could really help you.

So today, I ask you not to be afraid to allow God to get involved in this very important area. The first step is acknowledging that you need his help and guidance. The second is asking him to change you and grow you. Third, trust him no matter what he does.