There are many people that were raised right. You were raised on how love should be and even if you werent raised right you know how to give a healthy love because of your time with God.
You know that love aint always easy. Sometimes theres problems and you are willing to work through all of them. If thats true, then why are you with someone that isnt willing to work through anything?
High effort people shouldnt be with low effort people. That is a recipe to never be fulfilled.
I heard it say that when it comes to relationships men are lazy. And yes this is true for a lot of men just like a lot of men are cheaters but a lot of men arent cheaters as well and will treat you right. It is up to you to choose that.
I love how the bible mentions CALEB has a different spirit. Do you know how you can meet someone and they are just different? You know they are good? They just fit just right and that is what I am praying for you.
If Caleb saw some giants in the land he wouldnt bow. He would be alright with it. He is still going into the promise land.
Caleb doesnt care if you have kids, have or had STDS, you still are in poverty way past the age. No CALEB looks and says this is my promised land.
I am praying that you would meet someone with a different spirit. He wont give you all the trouble that you have had before.
Its time for you to move into your destiny.