I used to think I was so hurt in my life I would never be able to form a good relationship. I started getting into relationships or shall I say “sitiationships” that were not right for my soul.

I noticed some common themes in the people I was choosing. After a while, I started to believe that I had a stronghold in the area of my love life. That since the hole in my heart was so big that I could never really get it together.

I tried my best to block people, to tell myself I wouldn’t hang out again, but I always would. I was weak and couldn’t stay away from people who I knew in my heart weren’t who they presented themselves to be.

God came into one of my prayer times back in September 2018 and he literally tapped on my shoulder and let me know that he was going to help me in this area and that he wanted me to focus on this.

I did not want to, knowing that at that time I was numb and I wanted to stay that way. I did not want to face the pain of all I had been through by waking that place up.

When I realized how much I needed God’s strength to start clearing out my life and start making God decisions, I started speaking this scripture over my personal life.

The Lord is my light and my salvation, whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life, of whom shall I be afraid?

Psalm 27:1

I soon realized there is no stronghold except him in my life keeping me together, giving me another chance to get it right, and showing me that he wanted to bless me with a life time love. I started hanging onto him for dear life until I started noticing my life changing.

No matter how low you are in this area of your life, don’t take less than what you deserve. And get in a corner with God and ask him to show you what kind of man he wants you to be with. Allow him to show you how valuable you really are.