I was watching a video last night about the root of rejection. If you are always dealing with the symptoms but never get to the root of the problem, the root will affect your life over and over again in some way.
This is why is imperative for people to settle down, dig deep, and take care of what is deep inside their hearts. The word says that out of the heart flows the issues of life. I guarantee that if you look at some of the issues that you keep having, it is coming from a root that needs to be taken care of deep in your heart.
You have to find a way to annihilate that root from causing problems in your life again. Treating the symptoms will only last a little while until there is a flare-up.
Get real about getting you taken care of. Deal with the root until you know that your life will never be affected by it again.