Life is the sum total of all of your decisions. I don’t think there is a truer statement. Little decisions and big decisions all make an impact on the quality of life. We can try to over-spiritualize it but the truth of the matter is many things we find ourselves in are a result of a bad decision. There may be supporting material on “why” the decision was made, but we will never learn if we keep supporting our “whys” and just take responsibility for the need to make a different decision going forward.

There are moments in life when you will have to make the best decision that you can given the information and experiences that you have faced. Sometimes in order to choose yourself and what is best for you, means that you will make a decision that is not best for someone else. Sometimes decisions will separate you from people that believe another route should have been taken.

Sometimes, you just have to believe in your own decisions, stand your ground and continue doing what you believe to be best with your life. The main person you are responsible for is yourself. If you can’t even make good decisions to take care of yourself, how do you expect to ever adequately be able to take care of someone else or other people?

So don’t feel bad about the decisions you made to make the right decision for you. On the road to destiny, you will attract all of the right people places and things that you are supposed to while you are still taking care of the gift he gave you–yourself.